Hi, I started Becoming with Nely because I understand what it’s like to be in that uncertain space...healing from the past, rediscovering yourself, and working to rebuild your life with peace and purpose.

By focusing on faith, fitness, mindset videos, relationship podcasts, and plenty of reflection, I’ve learned how to care for myself both inside and out. Healing is more than letting go of pain. It’s also about rebuilding confidence, setting healthy boundaries, and finding joy in everyday moments.

💗 Heart | Modern Grace

Love and dating have shaped a big part of my journey. I’ve had moments of silence, confusion, and lessons that humbled me and I’ve also had moments that reminded me love can be kind, patient, and healing.
I share my real experiences with dating while healing because I know how hard it is to open your heart again when you’re still figuring out who you are. I believe love should bring peace, not pressure.

🌿 Mind | Faith and Growth

My faith is what keeps me grounded. Through prayer and reflection, I’ve learned that even when life doesn't make sense, God is guiding me. Here, I share faith-based reflections and personal stories that have helped me stay centered and hopeful in every season.

💪 Body | Fitness and Healing

Movement has played a big part in my healing. Lifting weights, doing CrossFit, dancing, or taking long walks helped me release emotions I couldn’t express. I learned that strength isn’t just about what you carry; sometimes it’s about what you let go of.

💵 Life | Finances and Balance

I’ve learned that when your emotions are out of balance, it can affect every part of your life, even your finances. I began to see budgeting and planning as self-care. Being intentional with my time and money helped me find peace and stability again.

“I’m not starting over — I’m simply getting back to everything that once set my soul on fire.”